Recognising the role and contribution of grandparents raising grandchildren
Participants in the inquiry considered that the role and contribution of
grandparents raising grandchildren is under-appreciated by governments and the
community. Accordingly, participants argued that there is scope for better
recognition of carers.
This chapter examines the following topics:
the role and contribution of grandparents raising grandchildren;
how to better recognise grandparents raising grandchildren.
Role and contribution of grandparents raising grandchildren
The role and contribution of grandparents raising grandchildren was
discussed in terms of the grandchildren in care and its value to society.
Role and contribution to children
Grandparents raising grandchildren play a significant role in the lives
of the grandchildren for whom they care. In addition to raising the children in
a safe and secure environment,
grandparents provide 'familial connection, usually warmth and love, and a
desire for the best future for their grandchildren'.
Some participants argued that this family connection and higher level of
emotional investment makes the care provided by grandparents unique from other
forms of out‑of‑home care (in particular, foster care), resulting in greater placement stability.
Dr Marilyn McHugh, for example, submitted:
International studies tell us of the many advantages for
children in kinship placements. They feel loved and wanted. Compared to foster
care, their placements are more stable and longer lasting; children have a
better sense of identity and belonging; and are able to maintain contact with
family and friends. Recent Australian research found kinship carers deeply committed
to raising their grandchildren, providing them with security and the chance to
live happy and fulfilling lives.
Wanslea Family Services Inc. (Wanslea) similarly commented:
Grandparents provide their grandchildren with care that has
emotional and social benefits to the community and their grandchildren. There
is often already an attachment relationship, meaning the child enters the care
of someone who already knows and loves him or her. The importance of family
history and identity can therefore be respected. Grandchildren can be kept in
ready contact with cousins and other relatives, depending on family
circumstances. Often such access is difficult to achieve in formal foster care
arrangements. Grandchildren being cared for by their grandparents have the
opportunity to experience a stable, consistent and loving home and family.
For some submitters, the ability of grandparents to ensure their
grandchildren's connection to spiritual and cultural identity was critical.
The circumstances of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander grandparents is
discussed further in Chapter 7.
Context of the care placement
While the evidence suggested many positive outcomes for grandchildren,
it also highlighted that grandparents often undertake the role of raising
their grandchildren in very difficult circumstances. In addition to
practical challenges (see Chapters 3-7), participants described the
complex context of the placement and the emotional burden borne by
Dr Jan Backhouse, a social researcher based at the Centre for Children
and Young People, Southern Cross University, explained, for example:
The grandparent-as-parent experience is marked by both deep
pain and pleasure. The many challenges faced by grandparents who take on the
primary care of their grandchildren include financial issues, legal battles,
physical and emotional health problems (their own, as well as those of their
grandchildren), social isolation and lifestyle changes, parenting problems and
conflict with the children's parents.
Nevertheless, grandparents are totally committed to the care,
safety and happiness of their grandchildren, often at the expense of their own
lives. They routinely place their grandchildren's financial needs before their
own, often drawing on very meagre income to provide for the children's health,
education, out of school/sporting activities etc. in an attempt to give their
grandchildren the same opportunities available to other children.
Research also reveals the significant loss of the traditional
grandparent role by grandparent carers. Instead of the 'mythical' grandparent
role involving 'pleasure without responsibility', they must now take on the
parenting roles of disciplinarian, provider and authority figure. This shift to
the grandparent-as-parent role has impacted on grandparents in a number of
different ways, including provoking feelings of being unrecognized,
disadvantaged, misunderstood and isolated within the community, together with
a strong sense of injustice in relation to their experience.
A few participants presented the views of grandchildren, who are, or who
have been, in the care of their grandparents. Notwithstanding the numerous
difficulties associated with the arrangement, the children and young people generally
expressed a preference for kinship care.
Role and contribution to society
Some participants argued that grandparents raising grandchildren make a
substantial economic contribution to society, by preventing future costs to the
social welfare, education and health budgets.
Other participants focussed on short-term savings achieved through the lack of
financial support to grandparents who provide care through informal
arrangements (see Chapter 3),
and the decreased need for alternate out-of-home care options (in particular,
Dr Backhouse submitted 'many grandparents believe that they are 'saving
the government money' by raising their grandchildren'
and COTA Australia (COTA) explained:
Grandparents and other kinship carers are providing a service
that would otherwise have to be paid for with the children being in foster care
or possibly some form of institutional care. Given the difficulty we have in
getting an accurate estimate of how many grandparent carers there are, it is
hard to estimate the savings to community service budgets[.]
Comparison with foster carers
At the Melbourne public hearing, Mrs Nicole Patton from The Mirabel
Foundation advised that there is a 'massive' difference in the supports and
services provided to foster carers and kinship carers:
A big part of that is access to carer payments, ongoing
financial support, but with that financial support also comes practical support
that is often available too. There is orthodontic work that children might
need—just all the practical things that you come across when you are raising a
child. They are not available to grandparents. Foster carers have access
to some limited resources.
By way of example, Mr Bernie Geary, Principal Commissioner for the
Victorian Commission for Children and Young People, referred to a funding
disparity in his jurisdiction, where the Foster Care Association of Victoria receives
annual funding of $400,000, compared with Kinship Carers Victoria which
receives $50,000 per annum:
Clearly this level of funding for [kinship carers] cannot
begin to meet the existing and impending growing need. We are happy to make
[kinship care] a growth industry, but we are also not funding it. This is
despite how...the majority of carers are kinship carers and the trend and rapid
growth is obvious. Foster care is a shrinking type of care. The equation is
Witnesses suggested that the differential treatment in supports and
services might be due to various factors, such as governments not being aware
of the extent of grandparent provided care and cost considerations.
In relation to the latter view, Ms Meredith Kiraly from the Australian
Psychological Society indicated that there is a struggle to shift attitudes
away from the traditional view of 'it is their family; why do you pay your own
family to look after children'? 
Ms Heather Gridley countered that there is now recognition that:
...the system is bigger than the family...[and] the family is in
an environment that is bigger than itself and, while some of the problems
certainly come from the family, some of the solutions can be in there also, if
they can be supported to support the child or the parent.
Throughout the inquiry, participants remarked on the contrast in recognition,
supports and services provided to grandparents raising grandchildren.
Several witnesses expanded on Ms Kiraly's comment, stating that there is
an expectation that grandparents will fulfil the role,
regardless of the availability of supports and services, as the children
involved are family. For example, Mission Australia stated:
The perception around the grandparents is that it is that way
because grandparents will take the children anyway. The grandparents think, 'No‑one
will give us these things, because it is not like we are going to leave the
children on the doorstep somewhere'.
Dr Backhouse told the committee:
There is...a belief that foster carers are 'appreciated' for
the job they do, however, grandparent caregivers are 'expected' to do the same
job without any recognition. Foster carers are also viewed as being able to
avail themselves of ongoing support from welfare agencies in raising foster
children, whereas when children are placed with grandparents it is assumed that
'they're okay, they're with family' and no further support is required.
The Aged-care Rights Service Inc. argued that grandparents raising
grandchildren should have access to the best available supports and services,
and the Commissioner for Children and Young People, Western Australia
considered that these could be provided by redirecting the current cost savings:
Providing such services and supports is, in itself, an
important recognition of the contribution [grandparents raising grandchildren]
make and acknowledgment of the challenges that come with being the primary
carer for their grandchildren. For those with informal care arrangements
providing access to the same services and supports would also provide such
How to better recognise grandparents raising grandchildren
Participants highlighted that grandparents do not always want to be
identified as carers for their grandchildren.
The Salvation Army identified as one example the situation in which there has
been parental dysfunction: some grandparents 'live with a sense of shame, as
though the actions/inactions of their children are reflective of themselves'.
The evidence of Mrs Helen Hinkley typified another comment heard from some grandparents
as the committee held public hearings across the country:
Sometimes you think: 'Where did I go wrong? I ended up with
these beautiful grandchildren. I had five children of my own. One went wrong.
Why? What did we do? For a long time there we were punishing ourselves for
that, thinking we must have done something wrong, but it does not work that
Further, the committee heard that some grandparents raising
grandchildren believe the role is stigmatised:
Many grandparents report...feeling fearful of people's
reactions, being accused of being bad parents, and that their grandchildren
get teased and bullied about being cared for by "their oldies". Sometimes this fear means they do not access services that are
available, including financial assistance, and often withdraw from social
Many submitters and witnesses stated however that, rather than remain
invisible, grandparents raising grandchildren want to be recognised for the
role they have assumed and for there to be better recognition of its value to
Dr Bridget Jenkins, a research associate at the Centre for Social Impact, explained:
[Grandparent raising their grandchildren] feel invisible,
really. And it grates...They want recognition that what they are doing is
valuable and worthwhile, that they are a legitimate family and that they can
give love and affection and meet the needs of their grandchildren.
Evidence to the committee offered numerous suggestions for the practical
recognition of grandparents raising grandchildren (see Chapters 3-7) but also suggestions
aimed at enhancing the legal, social and political recognition of the grandparents.
The topics discussed included: identification of the needs of grandparents; recognition
of informal care arrangements; recognition of Aboriginal and Torres Strait
Islander kinship arrangements: more explicit recognition from governments; respect
and consideration from authorities; and increased levels of public awareness.
Identification of the needs of grandparents
raising their grandchildren
As discussed in Chapter 1, participants supported enhancing the
Australian Bureau of Statistics' data collections, to better identify the
number and circumstances of grandparents raising grandchildren in Australia. Wanslea,
for example, submitted:
[B]y having their profile evident in Census statistics [grandparents
raising grandchildren] shift from being an invisible to visible family form,
which can then be recognised, provided and planned for in service delivery.
When services are planned and provided according to their needs, the
practical challenges...are not only recognised but managed.
Family and Relationship Services Australia (FRSA) argued that, if appropriately
recognised, the grandparents could be supported with more 'imaginative' shared
For example, in the Northern Territory, Kinship Carer assessments
made by the Department of Children and Families (DCF) take into account the health
of the carer and the ability of the carer to provide support to children in the
long term...[T]he DCF has refused grandparents the role of carer for their
grandchildren on the basis of their health status. In some cases this is an unfortunate
decision and results in the child being removed from family and placed in
foster care. Shared care arrangements could, on the other hand, seek to balance
the physical health demands of the carer role while still recognising the
strengths of grandparents.
Recognition of informal care arrangements
Participants in the inquiry contended that there is a need to recognise
informal care arrangements, to facilitate grandparents' access to supports and
and to enable them to sign consents on behalf of their grandchildren. Witnesses
described the many difficulties they have experienced in signing permission
forms for school activities, making medical and dental appointments, and applying
for birth certificates and passports.
Women's Legal Services NSW (WLS NSW) referred to the Commonwealth's Informal
Relative Caregiver's Statutory Declaration, a version of which has been
implemented in South Australia, Victoria, New South Wales and the Australian
Capital Territory. The statutory declaration provides certain people–including
grandparents–with a means of proving that they have the primary care of a
The committee heard that the statutory declaration may be of limited use
due to: few grandparents being aware of its availability; and variable
acceptance among state and federal agencies.
Ms Janet Loughman from WLS NSW noted also that the statutory declaration does
not affect legal responsibility for the child (and cannot therefore be
used in conjunction with passport applications):
It is primarily a document that...assists with access to
Centrelink benefits or access to a Medicare card [or] for decisions such as
serious medical interventions for a child or enrolling a child in school. Those
sorts of decisions can require parental responsibility. These declarations do
not transfer parental responsibility, they just acknowledge who has the day‑to‑day
care of a child.
A representative from the Department of Social Services indicated that
the statutory declaration by itself is not sufficient proof of the day-to-day
In this regard, WLS NSW suggested that it would be beneficial to promulgate the
'kind of evidence required and when it is best to collect such evidence',
perhaps through a community awareness program.
Recognition of Aboriginal and
Torres Strait Islander kinship arrangements
In 2004, the Family Law Council (Council) acknowledged the need for
functional recognition of particular child rearing and kinship-based parenting
practices within Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities:
[I]t is important to recognise in law that a relative who is
not a parent may actually be exercising the primary parental responsibility for
the child, in order to determine specific legal and administrative
questions. For example, this is required to ascertain whether a person is
Receive Family Tax Benefit A
Receive child support
Consent to medical treatment on
behalf of a child, and
Enrol a child in school.
It is for this reason that Council sees the need to develop
special processes for that recognition in relation to Aboriginal and Torres
Strait Islander children. In short, Council sees merit in considering easier
ways of recognising the parental responsibilities of non-biological parents in
Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities. The aim would be to devise
processes which do not in most cases require a full scale court application
with its attendant costs and difficulties.
Ten years later, some participants in the inquiry expressed the view
that out‑of-home care systems still do not adequately recognise the
concept of kinship care arrangements in Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities.
WLS NSW, for example, called for greater recognition of Aboriginal and
Torres Strait Islander kinship practices, and supported the creation of a
special procedure to recognise non‑biological parents as having parental
This legislation would allow an appropriate person under
Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander customary law to be recognised as having
parental responsibility for the purposes of Federal [and State] law where both
biological parents indicate their consent without having to go through a
complex and court-based process. Simple registration with a Government agency
familiar to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people such as Centrelink
would be all that is required.
More explicit acknowledgement from
A few participants suggested ways in which governments could explicitly
recognise grandparents who are raising their grandchildren. Grandparents
Rearing Grandchildren WA (Inc.), for example, proposed the creation of a 'special
category in Centrelink', which would expedite grandparents' interactions with
Relationships Australia suggested 'a letter from a state authority to
thank grandparents for the role they have undertaken'.
COTA referred to the Carer Recognition Act 2010 (Cth), which defines a
...an individual who provides personal care, support and
assistance to another individual who needs it because that other individual:
(a) has a disability; or
(b) has a medical condition (including a terminal or
chronic illness); or
(c) has a mental illness; or
(d) is frail and aged.
COTA argued that grandparents raising grandchildren should be included
within the definition of 'carer' as 'their role is equivalent to that of people
caring for frail elderly relatives or children with a disability'[.]
Ms Josephine Root, National Policy Manager for COTA, emphasised that the role
played by grandparents is not within 'normal family caring responsibilities':
They are actually...saving the community money and hassle and
they believe providing a better outcome for their grandchildren. For most of
them it was about that and it was seen as something that was not the normal
family structure in Australia...that it was different from raising your own
children or providing some child care to your grandchildren on a one, two,
three days a week or overnight basis when your adult children want to go
somewhere for a holiday and so on.
Respect and consideration from
Across Australia, witnesses reflected on the perception of grandparents
raising their grandchildren within departments and agencies, and called for a
cultural change where grandparents are given non-judgemental understanding and
support. Mr Tom Cowen from the Aged‑care Rights Service Inc. told the
[Staff] need to recognise the situations that grandparents
are in and the stresses and onerous nature of the tasks they face, and, having
come to that recognition, are then able to help them with whatever resources
Similarly, the Australian Human Rights Commission suggested that:
...people in the government agencies be trained to work with
grandparents so that it could be a more user-friendly, pleasant environment in
which the staff would not be seen as social-welfare police who were going to
challenge what the grandparents were doing or question why the parents were not
looking after the children or interfering too much in the family arrangements.
So you would have people who were trained to be sensitive and trained to
understand what sort of support a grandparent really needs.
Other participants commented on the need for child protection
authorities to better involve grandparents raising their grandchildren in
Mr Bernie Geary from the Victorian Commission for Children and Young People, stated,
[Kinship carers'] views are not given suitable weight and
they are not included in planning and decision-making about the child, and this
is inconsistent with the legislative requirements...under the Children, Youth
and Families Act 2005 [Vic]...But this never attracts significant attention
or acknowledgement. In fact, this aspect of the legislation appears to be
disregarded by many within the [Department of Human Services (Vic)].
Mr Andrew Jackamos, Commissioner for Aboriginal Children and Young
People, agreed, stating that Koori kinship carers feel that they have 'no voice
with decision-makers and no direct line to raise their concerns and advocate
for change about their grandchildren'. Where family-led decision-making occurs,
which is often subsequent to a placement and infrequent, 'the right family
members [are not included]'.
At the Sydney public hearing, Ms Merilyn O'Neill, Policy Officer for the
Grandparent and Kinship Carers Association Inc., Mid North Coast New South
Wales, referred to a recent New South Wales Government initiative (Carer
Reference Group), which aims to give carers a voice in the out-of-home care
Increased levels of public
Submitters and witnesses argued that there is a general need for
heightened awareness of the role and contribution of grandparents raising their
COTA and the AHRC supported:
...an education campaign that challenges stereotypes and
entrenched norms about caring roles and grandparent carers...to enable Australian
society to recognise a diversity of caring structures, households and
relationships for women and men of all ages.
Professor Gillian Triggs, President of the AHRC, referred to the commission's
publication Your Rights at Retirement as an example of a successful
means of providing information to the community:
That would be one way to go in making sure that people are
more aware of grandparent carer needs and support and what their rights and
A complex set of circumstances often results in grandparents assuming
the primary responsibility for raising their grandchildren at a time in life
when such a role may be neither contemplated nor planned. The decision to raise
these children has consequences, many of which are adverse (see Chapters 3-7). In
the circumstances, there is a strong argument in favour of recognising grandparents
raising their grandchildren for the difficult role they have voluntarily
undertaken and the significant contribution made by these grandparents to the
lives of their grandchildren and to the community generally.
The committee considers that the Australian Government, through the
Council of Australian Governments process, should investigate a means of
recognising the role and contribution of grandparents raising grandchildren
During the inquiry, submitters and witnesses described a stigma
associated with grandparents raising grandchildren, citing this negative
attitude as a reason why grandparents might choose not to identify themselves
as carers for the children or to avail themselves of available supports and
services. The committee considers that stigmatisation of the care provided by grandparents
needs to be addressed, to better identify and support grandparent-headed families.
The committee agrees with COTA and the AHRC that a campaign would inform
attitudes about the role and contribution of grandparents raising grandchildren.
In certain circumstances (see Chapter 3), the committee sees merit in the production
of a single comprehensive publication. However, in the context of broader
education, the committee considers that the Australian Government should
consider effective avenues for raising community awareness and understanding of
the role and contribution of grandparents who have the primary responsibility
for raising their grandchildren.
As a related issue, the committee acknowledges that some governments
have adopted the Commonwealth's Informal Relative Caregiver's Statutory
Declaration, to enable grandparents (among others) to identify themselves
as the primary carer for their grandchildren. The committee considers this to
be a highly useful mechanism, and recommends that all governments affirm
support for the statutory declaration, with a view to implementing a consistent
means of recognising informal care arrangements across all departments and
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